Gratitude

Thanksgiving is a great idea. Too bad it doesn't really work. In general it's become another holiday where we run around like crazy trying to make things perfect for that one special day. Often it involves having a bunch of people around that we will probably complain about at work on Tuesday. Cynical? Perhaps a bit, but I say it to make a point. Thanksgiving is not just for one weekend. Gratitude is not just for the big stuff. Thankfullness is a full time occupation. You're alive, that's a miracle in itself. Every breath is a gift. This isn't just Mary Poppins stuff, this is real. And if you doubt it, think about the alternatives. Sure your life has a lot of speed bumps, and some of them are huge, but something in you knows it really doesn't matter in the long run. Now, what can you do with this information? Pass it on. Help your kids to live their lives in gratitude. Every day have them find just one thing they have to be grateful for. Put it in a gratitude diary. Post it on the walls. Gratitude is not just saying a prayer or holding a holiday, it's changing the way you look at life, 360 degrees. It's dropping the victim role and riding in the saddle, and you do your kids a favour by taking them along for the ride. Even those kids with the roughest of lives have something they are grateful for, they just don't know it yet. If it's not their home life, then your job is to make sure it's at school! By the way, Happy Thanksgiving!